time for a change !

OKAY so this is it im stopping everything. i have continuously damaged my hair with relaxers and color even though my hair my appear healthy it is truely not so i am going to stop everything. no more realxers no more color no more flat iron i am going to treat my hair and see what happenes wish me luck :-D

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If ever guy is a dog .... then every female is a bitch

how can a woman sit there and trutfully say "every guy is the same" . there are plenty of guys out there who are nice guys and dont mean any harm. so as females why do we lable every single guy and jump to conclusions before we even meet them . I understand we have all been hurt before but to expiernce the joy you have to know what pain feels like first. guys have every reason in the world to call us bitches for the fact that girls play the same games guys do plus more .If a nice guy comes around dont keep your guard up he could mean well but if he turns out to be a jerk dont feel bad , be thankful that you met him and keep it movingg . life goes on. i have so much respect for all the nice guys out there who know how to treat a lady . there arent many of yall but for the ones that are left you guys are great, and ladies dont be too mean to the guys they have feelings too. so the next time you say "every guy is a dog " you basically saying "every woman is a bxtch" =]
xoxo,
shantel

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A woman's worth :-)

why do females settle for less than they are worth ? what is it about a guy who mistreats a girl that makes her want him more ? i have seen too many girls chase guys who aren't worth their time. the age old question what do women want comes into play . Do women want a jerk or a sweetheart. Me personally I would like a sweetheart, nice guys are hard to find but i do appreciate them when they come along , but there is a difference between being a sweetheart and being clingy. bottom line ladies know your worth and don't settle for less there is a guy out there who will treat you right.

xoxo,

Shantel

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bloggggingg finally <3

so blogging was never something i was into or interested in . i thought i would be kind of pointless to rant about my life on the internet but hey new things are always cool .

I HOPE YOUR GUYS ENJOY =*


It's a girls world , you just live in it =) blogging should be fun .


xoxo,
Shantel

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